GET A JOB NOT ANOTHER HUSBAND
- Odeke Anthony
- Jun 25
- 1 min read

By TONY PRO
In a world where dependence is often disguised as love, many women are taught to seek a provider rather than become one. But the truth is, self-reliance is the most powerful form of security. Before you go looking for a new husband to “fix” your life, ask yourself: have you tried fixing it yourself first?
A job won't lie to you with sweet words it doesn't mean. A job won't leave when times get hard. A job builds your self-worth, pays your bills, and earns you respect, not just from others, but from yourself.
Getting a job is not just about money. It's about purpose, pride, and power. A new husband might come with expectations, but a job comes with independence. Work on yourself. Build your own. Then, if love comes, let it be a bonus, not your lifeline.
Because in the end, it's better to sign a contract of employment than a marriage contract that binds you to someone you're not even sure of. Choose stability. Choose self-worth. Get a job before you get a new husband.
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